also.. the screaming songs.. we dont want those lol. id love to have them but there will be old people there. i like the song "your gaurdian angel" by "The red jumpsuit apperatus" but torwards the end of the song it gets loud.(if any1 knows a softer version of the song i would almost pay to get it!)
I also like "Everything" by " Lifehouse" but i think it sounds kind of dreary and too long.
I like "First day of my life" from " Bright eyes" but the song is too slow and not enuff rythym.
i dont want hip hop or anything like that. no country, and i do not like those girly celine dion or classic songs. and keep in mind the groom has to like them too. anything that a guy wouldnt like is out of the question for me.
i dont like nickle back or anything that too low pitched.

if this helps any, i came from a hard life and he has led me to a new more stable life where i can finally be happy.i think a song that sings about that would be great.