There's two scenarios here and you have to distinguish between them.
Some would say that if one of your hairs fall out, you are not the same as before. That is an extreme view but I can understand it. I mean... technically you are not the same as before. But i think identity has to do with a lot more than just material. It has to do with history. Even if your hair falls out... you still maintain the same relationship to your history and most of your body has been through that history with you.
That is the second scenario you responded to.
But for the first one you say "even if little bits of wood get changed." That sounds a lot like an example of what I stated above, but I think you're in fact referring to the process of eventually replacing ALL of the wood. Do you maintain that the ship remains the same even when all of the wood has been replaced because it is incorporated into the identity of the ship? This is a very popular view.
However, if I take into account what I said before about history, then what happens when all of the wood has been replaced and completely lacks the historical importance the original wood had? Theseus never walked upon any of that wood... it has never even been on the ocean. Is it the same ship?
Whereas the wood that has been removed and was a part of the journey theseus made is now simply wood, to be thrown on the fire?
I'm really glad I got examples of people with the two main opposing opinions
